Err... it would be like... recommending car color :) Every one has it own taste. And your community has (or will have) own spirit.
You should look for a template that fits both.
Just take your time and pick one... or few, test them, customize them. no one could choose the best template for your community but you ;) Trust me, don't let any one decide for you ;)
- Instead of saying: 'it's not working', explain the problem in detail.
- Screenshots with the URL visible in them and the problem marked are more than welcome.
- Tell us how to replicate the problem, we can't fix it if we can't find it.
- Make sure that your site/server meets JomSocial System Requirements
- Make sure to setup JomSocial Cron Job
- Always provide us with access details to the backend and ftp. We need it to debug problems.
- If you have a similar problem, but a solution you found isn't working, open a new thread instead of 'merging' with an existing one.
- Use the "Thank You" feature on any post that helped you