The problem is with akeeba backup. It includes a plugin that replace the standard Joomla! installer. Anyway even if upgrade button is in red you will be able to upgrade.
We can't offer support for this site since it's not listed as supported domain.
For testing purposes restore your J! core installation system. You can do it by uninstalling Akeeba Backup. After that try to install the extension and let me know if the problem persists.