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about Gender filed translation, that because you put MY_GENDER[white space]. you must not using white space.
after I remove that white space and put MY_GENDER at language overrides, now you can see the correct translation for each language.
and about registration steps changing back to neutral. I made the changes at:
/components/com_community/controllers/register.php