My name is Paul and oversee support for Jomsocial and i have just seen your posts. I am very sorry for not replying to you sooner and would like to discuss this with you off the forum. It is nearly midnight in the timezone i am in so if i could please contact you when i start in the morning and resolve this for you. you can email me at paul at ijoomla dot com until then but i can promise you i will look into it as a priority and email you in the morning.